Make It a Wonderful Life

 By Katherine E. McIntyre, MS, LPC, NCC

Although rooted in fiction, we can all learn a little something from the movie It’s a Wonderful Life. This year especially has brought with it the sense of despair that George Bailey most certainly felt. Yet, the real world does not offer each of us the chance to take a glimpse at our lives and the ability to see the impact that our actions have on those around us. I would venture a guess that most of us do not put a whole lot of thought into our impact upon the world and our valuable place in it. Yet, it is most certainly there.

One thing that this year has reminded me is how connected each of us in this world really are. I now fully understand that my actions, or in some cases, lack of action have a vast impact on this world. Living in a small town in Wisconsin, it was difficult to fathom that this virus would reach us here. Yet, the fact that it did just offers evidence that the connection that we as human beings share is a very powerful one.

Aside from gaining insight into the importance of his life; George Bailey also gained something else. The knowledge that even in what seems to be our most hopeless moment; kindness and love will always prevail. After enduring the heartache of watching those that he loved suffer a world without him; tasting the blood on his face brought him such elation that he laughed and celebrated as he ran home. The strife that he had been experiencing no longer mattered to him. It was the love that he had for his family and the knowledge that he would get to see them again that brought him such joy. In that moment he was unaware of the kindness that his family members, friends and townspeople would bestow upon him.

Throughout the movie, the angel Clarence is working to gain his wings. This is what prompts him to show George Bailey the impact that he has had on those around him. Yet, it is important to remember that we can be real-life angels here on earth for those around us. Just as swiftly as this virus has spread; so too can love. Just as powerful as this virus is; so too is kindness.

Now, I am sad to say that as of late I have seen far too many “Mr. Potters” out there in the world. While they can make us feel hopeless at times; It’s a Wonderful Life reminds us that the impact of love and kindness is much more powerful and greater reaching. We are sure to stumble upon our own Mr. Potter now and again. That is part of life. However, if we commit ourselves to putting love into the world, we cannot go wrong.

For those of you who may be experiencing your own sense of despair, please seek out help. The world needs the beautiful unique person that you are because you make it a better place for the rest of us.

Many holiday blessings to you all.

Katie